The clock is ticking as I'm writing, and finally less than a month, I'll be finishing my undergraduate study. Despite of planning to study abroad, and all those thought leaving the country, and make most of my time here and there, the marriage mind kick in.

Huh! 

It looks so simple and easy at first but, its getting step by step, real. I mean like who would have thought its quite a feeling to accept someone in your life, like for good and bad, when we never grow up together. Just imagine, who would you trust will love you as your family does? Despite all the bad traits you own. Who could have thought, my dad will stop planning my future after this. Who could have thought, ill be on my feet (so much of spoon feeding). 

So here am i, reflecting myself, as a daughter to a great parents, on what i have achieved and good deeds for my parents. What an emotional month for me. 

The things that I always remember about my parents is literally everything good. Well, they are the living inspiration for me to have my own little family. They give me the very best in everything, and I couldn't thank enough for everything. From food to educations, and even advices. There are many to be mentioned, but what i am today, is what they moulded me to become. The mindset, the way i speak, the way i address issue, its all what they taught (unless i choose to act otherwise). 

So I was like thinking, how great the roles of a parent must be. They influence the children's life, on what they become and that is the sole reason why that family institution is so vital. The children are the future, the nation's future. 

Suddenly, it all makes sense, why people take marriage seriously, why the traits of the partner is crucial and most importantly, why marry?! Honestly, i just understand the whole concept now (funny huh). 

Hence, the phase change is coming through. From a person, who is solely moulded by the parents, we are becoming one of the moulder soon. Thus, instead of acting like 'my action doesn't accountable for anybody else' to yes, my actions will determine my kids' actions.

photo courtesy: Imran Shah

XOXO,

BHR